Sunday, June 23, 2013

Service Project 2013

(The mural we painted in a classroom at the school.)

What an incredible week. It was Hot. Hard. Long. Testing. Tiring. Dirty. But none of that mattered when we got to see the smiles on those Czech kids faces as they slid down the slide, or threw water balloons at each other, or when they sneakily pinned a clothes pin on the back of my shirt without me knowing it.

(Helping two boys do craft. No words needed. Just smiles.)
I have been back now for just over 30 hours.... and after a nice 12 hour rest last night, I am still tired. I wasn't this tired on the trip. I told a friend today, you know, it always seems that you don't realize how tired you are until you are home. Without hesitation she responded, "that's because the Lord sustains you during the week." WOW. That sure brings a whole new meaning to the saying, 'I could not have done it if it were not for the Lord's help.'

(Playing 'Over & Under' with a soaking wet sponge in 95 degree weather.)

I was able to lead 5 high school girls throughout the week. I spent time with three of them during the soccer season, one, along with another, was in the bible study another leader and I helped lead and then the final was just an acquaintance. I was so blessed to have all of these girls in my small group. It was amazing to see the Lord working in their lives. Each one had their own story and each one was worked on by the Lord in their own way. And, EACH one was a different person at the end of the week. To God be the Glory.

(2 Club Beyond staff, 3 Volunteer leaders and 2 HS Volunteer leaders.)
Czech Republic was better than I could have imagined it. Thank you to all of you who kept in your prayers throughout the week. I am forever grateful.

Please pray for the students we were in touch with last week and for the Young Life International that is in that city. Pray that these students saw something in us that makes them want to get involved with Young Life there.

"So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. The man who plants and the man who waters have one purpose, and each will be rewarded according to his own labor." 

1 Corinthians 3:7-8


Sunday, June 2, 2013

Sunsets

Everyone seems to find it so funny how much I love sunsets. I'll agree... I've never met anyone else with my kind of, for lack of a better word, 'obsession.'

So, why sunsets?

Have you ever flown above the clouds on a cloudy day? What do you see? Boundless pure white clouds that just want to make you hop from one to the other. And a sun that is brighter than you have ever remembered it being. 

Beautiful, right?
(the Virginia sky)
Now, have you ever flown above the clouds as the day begins to wind down? Again, clouds and amazing sunsets. It's incredible. Just look....
(the Texas sky)

(Borrowed image. Above the clouds of Mt. Kilimanjaro)
Seriously!! What other 'god' can do that?! NONE other than the One. The King of Kings and Lord of Lords. The Light of the world.

When I see a sunset I don't just see a sunset. I see a God who cares. A God who loves. A God who keeps promises. A God who is always there. 
And a God who is faithful.

The sunset is always there, even on the dreariest of days (and believe me, my Germany friends and I sure have had our fair share lately). 

And don't forget that even on your dreariest of days, the Lord is there.


And that, ladies and gentlemen, is why I love sunsets so much.


Psalm 36:5 - "Your love, O Lord, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies."

This was my view tonight.

Thursday, March 7, 2013

9 months, 7 days later.....

I cannot believe that I have been here for 9 months and 7 days. I was thinking about this the other day and wondering where the time has gone. I began to ask myself these questions...

What have I even done in these 9 months?

Have I done what the Lord sent me here to do?

Have I made an impact?

Well, each of those questions has already been answered.... 

A lot!

Yes!

Absolutely!

The Lord is so good. He reveals himself to me on a daily basis. Just a few days after I had began asking myself these questions I got an answer through another friend... I have no idea who wrote this note. On Sunday afternoon I was looking for games for our 'Breakfast Club' on a friend's computer. Instead of logging into my email to send myself a link, I just sent it through Facebook (I had no idea you could do that, just thought I would try.) As I did that, I went to the whole message feed showed up and I saw this note: 
"I just wanna let you know that the last message that you sent me was very special to me and I'll ALWAYS keep in touch bc I care about you more than you'll ever realize and you've changed my life in such a short time. I want you to know that I appreciate the fact that you were willing to give me a chance to change your view of me and i'll miss you dearly over the break. Have a MERRY MERRY Christmas and a Happy New Year with your family and hopefully, I'll meet them one day."
Would you look at that. That was my answer... what timing! 

I have done what the Lord sent me here to do, and for a much longer time than first thought. This message, left for me by an anonymous friend, reminded me that even though I may not always see the impact I have had, it is still there. But, I want tangible evidence. What 'evidence' is there? Well, the teens are still talking to me. When I walk around post I constantly hear my name being called in the distance. When I go to the schools students run to greet me and wave to me across the lunchroom. It's all around me.

I can relate this to having two (almost 3!) nieces and a nephew. I see them once, maybe twice a year. Every time I see them, its seems they have grown SO much! Let's say I haven't seen them in 6 months... well, to me it's as if they have grown at least 5 inches each time. But, if I were with them daily, would I see the same difference? 

Being in a situation day in and day out, I can't always see the changes, difference or impact made. It all starts to seem like it is as it has always been. 

I can't always tell but the difference is there.

Since I have realized this, so many good things have happened. I can honestly say, without a doubt, that I am loving life. And of course, all thanks to my wonderful heavenly Father.

"Let us not be weary in doing good for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9



Tuesday, February 26, 2013

What's Happening?


Friends and Family,

Thank you for your continued prayers and support! I have been blessed to be a part of this ministry and even more so, to see what God has been doing in the lives of the teens here in Heidelberg, Germany and Europe.

This past fall has been very exciting! Here are a few things that we have done:


Pumpkin Palooza!
Pumpkin Palooza was a great night of carnival games, popcorn, candy, and pie throwing for our Middle School students! For every 10 tickets that the teens won, they got to choose a leader to pie in the face. My name sure did seem to get called a lot… that night about 50 pies of whipped cream were thrown! We ended the night with a Hillbilly dance and surprise hot chocolate and S’mores for the teens. What a night!


Christmas Parties!
We ended our weekly Club meetings for 2012 with a Christmas party… “Elf” style! It was full of making paper chains, gum sculpting,‘Christmas Tree’ decorating, and eating spaghetti topped with syrup, pop-tarts, sprinkles, and M&Ms. The Lord also blessed me with a visit from a college teammate in December.


Called and Chosen!

I had the privilege of joining the Catholic teens on a Life Teen retreat to Nuremburg. The purpose of the retreat was to guide these teens into a deeper and more meaningful relationship with Christ and the church. And it did just that… these teens are on FIRE for the Lord!



Winter Blitz!
On December 30th Suzann, Kayla, and myself, along with 5 volunteer leaders loaded the bus with 38 high school students and headed to the Austrian Alps for a week FULL of snow sports, basketball camp, and just hanging out. While all of that was a blast, the students loved the nightly Club gatherings where 365+ teens from all across Europe gathered to hear a presentation of the Gospel. They learned just how much we are all in need of a Savior. Many made the decision to begin or renew their relationship with Jesus Christ. The teens left with strengthened friendships but the majority left with a desire to live out their faith. Amen! (We celebrated New Years with a dance. Our Heidelberg group dressed up as Hillbilly’s and we all had a blast! We ended the night with Fireworks right out in front of the hotel.)

At the conclusion of the week, the teens were asked to take a survey. Here are just two of the results:
·     88% of teens at Winter Blitz stated they are interested in being a part of small groups back in their own communities
·     95% of teens at Winter Blitz stated that because of the week’s experience their own faith in God has been strengthened.

Because of that, camp did not end when we got back. We met with as many teens as possible after camp to follow up with them and encourage them to keep the faith. Since then, we have continued one and started 2 different Bible Studies; a Pancake Feed on Sundays, Christian Campus on Wednesday nights and EPIC Thursdays, a girls study. What a challenge it has been but the fruit of our labor is evident. The Lord continues to bless us in meeting new teens and having teens who are ‘regulars’ bring their friends.
     I cannot thank you enough! Please know that the Lord continues to bless us through your prayers and your giving. With all the success that we have seen, there are still a lot of teens that need our help. I was not sure how to adequately describe to you the type of things these teens are dealing with, so I will let them tell you. These are their responses to the statement:        

“If you REALLY knew me…”


... you would know that I had such anger problems as a kid that I had thoughts of killing my brother.

... that I stood right behind my brother and my cousin as they were shot by my side. I was the only one who survived.


... you would know that I am abused a lot, but I still find a reason to wear a mask or fake a smile when really, inside, I am crying and dying.

...you would know that my father is an alcoholic and I am afraid to go home. My entire family is falling apart and sometimes I feel like it is my fault. I cut myself every night.

... that I have suffered from an eating disorder since I was seven years old.

... you would know that I wish my mom would go to Afghanistan instead of my dad, but I wouldn't want my mom to come back.

...you would know that my dad refuses to accept and love me as his daughter, I feel like a bastard child to him.


These are only seven stories of MANY.



     Out of the teens that have been involved in Club Beyond, 79% say that Club Beyond is important to them and 81% believes it helps them deal better with life as a military teen. I need your help to keep this ministry in Heidelberg until the end.
     There are 3 people on staff, one who’s 6 month internship ends mid February. In order for me to stay until the end of the school year, I need to raise $600 more each month until June (a total of $3,000) in addition to the current monthly support I already receive. Please consider joining me in this. You can join this ministry financially through monthly or one-time donations; every bit counts! As always, your prayers are appreciated and very much needed. The Lord continues to bless me in ways that I could never have imagined. I believe that He does so because prayers from faithful friends like you.

In Him,               
                Caitlyn          
  

And how can they believe in him if they have never heard about him? And how can they hear about him unless someone tells them?
Romans 10:14


Caitlyn Riley
serving with
Military Community
Youth Ministries

CMR 419 Box 1636 APO AE 09102    
Telephone: 01149 6221 796 893
www.mcym.org

in partnership with
Young Life

PO Box 520 • Colo Springs, CO 80909    
Telephone: 877 438 9572
www.younglife.org

If you would like to have a
financial part in my work with 
MCYM/Club Beyond please log on to 
www.younglife.org/giving
and click ONLINE GIVING.

My account number is X976

Make checks payable to: YOUNGLIFE
Memo line should read:
Caitlyn Riley X976
Mail to the Colorado address above.


My address is: CMR 419 Box 214 • APO AE 09102 • criley@clubbeyond.org

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Same Verse. New Meaning.

A little while ago I set the background picture on my computer to my favorite verse. One that has meant so much to me in my physical struggles in the past 5 years. A verse that I have seen over and over again and continue to love. But, today was different. I saw something else. 

In the past several weeks I have had a lot of emotion... happy, sad, cloud 9, heartbreaking, and life altering events. All ok but, in the time span that it has been in, very overwhelming at times.

As I sit and reflect, my favorite verse brings a WHOLE new meaning... 

James 1:2-3

PURE JOY. 

When things are going well it is easy to consider it pure joy, because we are happy. But when things get tough, to us, it is anything but pure joy. But why? Why is it not pure joy that our heavenly father is refining us and making us better people? 

I am able to look back on the troubles in the last 5 years to know that there is hope in the troubles that I have faced in these past 6 months and hope in the ones that I will face in the next 6 months. Without my troubles I would not know what it means to persevere, fight, pray or even to find joy. 

I encourage you to look back at that favorite verse of yours. Find that new meaning.

Same verse. New meaning!


Thursday, October 11, 2012

My Next Steps...


Dear Friends,
           You may have been wondering what ever happened with my 3-month internship. In response to my first letter I received an overwhelming amount of prayer and financial support. Thank you, thank you, thank you! Little did I know that it was all a part of God’s awesome plan for this new chapter in my life.
            Because of what you gave and prayed for, I was offered the opportunity to stay through the fall, build relationships with the students, and participate in the big end of the year out-reach event called Winter Blitz. I had no plans for the fall, so it seemed like a wise choice. And that was only the start of it all.
            This past summer was wonderful. I learned so much! I am no stranger to the military brat life but I sure was a stranger to all of the paperwork. The first two weeks were spent in-processing.




But, I wouldn’t trade that time for anything. All the interns were able to spend that time together, get to know each other, and encourage one another. We became a family. They were such a blessing in my life. Once all the paperwork was complete, we all headed to our prospective communities in Germany, Belgium and Italy. I was originally assigned to Grafenwhoer, Germany but because of the possibility to stay longer, I remained in Heidelberg. Within a few days, we all met up again in Romania with high schoolers from 10 different military communities for Service Project 2012. We spent a week building a playground at a school, conducting Vacation Bible School and playing sports and other games with the Romanian kids. During that week I also had the pleasure of leading a small group of 6 girls, one of whom rededicated her life to Christ. I am still in touch with her and doing my best to encourage her in this new commitment.
             Back in Heidelberg we had a summer event for our students called Epicicity (Epi-kiss-ity). We divided the participants into 4 teams which competed against each other in different crazy games
each week for points. Cherry Bobbing in Syrup, Pancake Batter Crawl, Egg Smacktastic, Greased Pig, and Domination Donut were only a few of the games we played. It was such a success that week 1 started off with about 30 participants and by week 4 we had around 80! The winning team was to win a trip to Europa Park (an amusement park). Before the very last game there was a 2 point difference and after the last game, THERE WAS A TIE! We didn’t plan for that, so naturally we resorted to Rock, Paper, Scissors! Thankfully, the Chapel offered to pay for every participant to go. Praise the Lord! No one likes to lose because of a game of Rock, Paper, Scissors!
            Soon after the summer, things in Club Beyond Heidelberg began to shift, and drastically. Four full time staff started the summer: Tim, Austin, Olivia and Bruce. Olivia departed after service project to pursue another calling in her life. We gained Kayla, a 6-month intern, in August. Two weeks before he was due to move, Austin found out that he was being transferred to another community in Germany so Club Beyond could continue. The announcement was made the very first week of Club (the weekly youth outreach), September 10th and it was his last Club event. Sept. 14th, Tim was notified that he would be moving to Japan to begin Club Beyond. That very next week Bruce was told he was moving to England to begin Club Beyond. He announced on Sept. 24th that he was leaving – AND he was to move the very next day. After all of this, it was just Kayla and me (two interns) left to conduct Club events. Thankfully, another staff member, Suzann, graciously stepped in to lead us for the next several months as U.S. Army Heidelberg comes to a close.
For the first three Club meetings this school year, it was announced that someone was leaving. After these announcements I heard some teens say,

  “I’m afraid to come back next week.”

 “Why is everyone leaving us?”             
 

        “I don’t know if I can take this anymore.”

            It broke my heart to hear those things. I do not want to be just another person who invests in these teens and then all of a sudden has to leave them. Was that just my emotions or was that the Lord leading my steps? Both! These students have so much potential; they need Club Beyond and Club Beyond needs to stay until the gates on U.S. Army Heidelberg closes. There is no consistency in these teens’ lives right now. It is not a question of if they will move, it is now a question of when.
I feel that I am being called to stay here until the final gates close, until every child is gone – until July 2013. This is why I ask for your prayer and financial support. My monthly budget is $2,054. Because they have asked me to stay longer, Young Life has blessed me with $1,000 a month. That leaves me with $1,054 a month to cover remaining costs. For me to stay until January, I need to raise $6,000. If I were to stay until July I would need to raise another $6,000. (And that doesn’t include rent. Although I have been blessed with a host family, they may be moving in December… more adventure!) 
            I am not sure if I will be able to stay until July, but this is where I need to trust God to provide. Would you be willing to pray for me and Heidelberg Club Beyond? Would you consider contributing to this important effort to support these great military teens in transition? If you can pledge a small monthly amount, or contribute once, we will all greatly appreciate it! And please know that your prayers and resources are going to a very specific cause that is making a huge difference for youth in need of some small measure of stability in their lives this year.

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If you would like to have a financial part in my work with MCYM/Club Beyond please log on to www.younglife.org/giving and click ONLINE GIVING. My account number is X976

Make checks payable to ‘Young Life.’ Memo line: Caitlyn Riley X976
Send checks to Young Life PO Box 520 • Colo Springs, CO 80909   



Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Only By Him


Encouragement.
Encouragement is something I have been needing.  

But what's funny-
 is that no human words would do.

What was it that gave me encouragement the most?
The Father. The One. The Only.

"The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever." 
Isaiah 40:8

I think my need for encouragement was the Lord calling me to Him. 
He never leaves me.

Encouragement was found.
Only by Him.